The problem is not the problem.  The problem is your attitude about the problem.  Sometimes when we get frustrated we only think about the negative even if the positive stuff is staring you in the face.  Ive been invited to an 8 year olds birthday party.  Yeah.  But Im still going because even though she is about 1/2 my age we are still great friends.  Those girls are some of my best friends.  I dont care that their younger than me.  Im leaving for majorette camp in a little over a week.  Its going to be really hot outside.  Yuck.  Thats it.